frequently asked questions

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What is the dress code?
Black tie. Cape Cod evenings in July can be warm but breezy, so we recommend bringing a light wrap or jacket.

Can I bring a guest?
Please check your invitation to see if a guest is included — we’re so excited to celebrate with everyone invited!

Are children invited?
We love your little ones, but our celebration will be adults-only.

Where should I stay?
While we don’t have formal room blocks, we’ve included recommended hotels under Accommodations on this site.

Do I need a car?
Uber and Lyft are available on the Cape, but some guests may still prefer to rent a car for added flexibility to explore.

Will transportation be provided?
We are still working out transportation details! Full details will be shared closer to the date and updated here.

Is there parking at the venue?
Yes, parking is available at Wychmere. That said, we recommend using a rideshare app or the provided shuttles so you can relax and enjoy the evening!

When is the wedding?
Friday, July 24, 2026.

Is there a welcome party?
Yes! Please join us Friday evening at the Chatham Bars Inn. Check out the main page of the site for details.

Where do I RSVP?
Formal invitations will be mailed, and you’ll send your RSVP card back by mail.

What time should I arrive?
The ceremony will begin promptly at 6:30 PM. Please arrive no more than 15 minutes prior to allow for smooth seating and start time.

What will the weather be like?
July on Cape Cod is beautiful, with daytime temperatures in the 70s–80s and cooler evenings by the water.

Do you have a registry?
Our registry will be available on this site once it is ready, but your presence is truly the greatest present. We can’t wait to celebrate with you!